Monday, August 8, 2011

Dad Family Problems! Please help me....?

(I asked this already, rephrased question) Today, my dad decided to go watch my soccer game. I am usually reluctant for him to watch me do anything (piano, theatre, soccer etc...) because he makes me nervous. He just stands there and seems so judgemental! I made it clear how I felt and he said he didnt care at all about soccer and he just wanted to watch. Anyway, he watched a half and came over and said "so?" he said "you played like a delittante" (polite way of saying lackluster). I said that I was hesitant to be aggresive and played it safe because he was watching and I was nervous. He said absolutely nothing positive! He didnt even give an encouraging smile. And after I said he made me nervous he got angry and left saying that he was a pitiful excuse for my poor play. I told him my uncle (who, to his shock, I invited to watch a game later on) would never say something that. I know he wants me to improve but I think he should supportive and friendly even if he has some criticism!

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